Have you ever been thinking that just what if, the obstacles are not the enemies, and they actually are the way ? 

Let me break this down to you; 

How you see things tells a lot of your current mind set – how you see the obstacles is how you also see the path. Are you giving up straight a way, or are you going to keep pushing through, no matter of what will come across ? 

Things rarely go exactly how you have been planning them to go, but when you keep in your plans some extra room, there is also room to expand, to make the changes needed to still get where you’re aiming towards to. Past few weeks for sure for me have not been what I planned them to be, this year may have not started as efficiently as I thought it to start. But that also at the same time, i’ts more than okey. I have seen so many posts about the fire horse year that is about to start soon accordingly of the Chinese year, that I have just putting all these so called hiccups on to still on going end of the snake. What needs to dissolve, shall do it now.

Funny enough, as January of 2025 felt like never ending one, after the first week of this year, the has been like flying. And so far, even with some small hiccups, I have been already been loving how things have been starting to mold. At the sea time, I have found myself been more laid back yet more straightforward, if that makes any sense. I may have been stressing at first when ever  obstacle arises, but then, but when that happens, I’m allowing to myself 5 emotional minutes and then, action. And sometimes the action is to breath. Then, after that new check, what can I actually still do, whit what I have? To what I can affect? What can I change, starting from my point of view. Am I really looking at the whole picture or just hyper focusing on some small detail? 

And most importantly, is my point of view coming out of fear, from past or am I seeing the picture as it is, based on where am I now. Because all it matters, is where you stand now, that is what takes you to where you want to go. The decision we do now, are the steps that either take us more closer to the desired outcomes or more far away from there. 

Obstacles arent enemies, as when those arise, there is also solution to be seen. By erasing what doesnt work, you are creating more room for the solutions that will work more on your favor. And this works on everything, from relationships to clothing, from work to your personal and home life.

What short term solutions can I do now to get the solutions for the things that are bothering now, that would be also benefit me in a long run so that I could take the next steps with ease, being more direct?  Asking this kind of question not only gives your peace for this exact moment but also it doesn’t water down your desired outcome later on. The focus should always stay in bigger picture, while understanding the importance of details, as they will be ones that create the bigger picture itself.

Also, lately there has been trending strongly the year 2016 and the thing around it, and that was actually good thing too for me personally to check back from where the progress has been taking me during the years but also been good reminder on what still works, with all the knowledge included that I have been gaining through out the past decade.

Over all, this slowed down start of the year has actually been also really beenficial in many ways for me. What at first felt like annoying delay has actually bene the much needed time to dissolve the thing that I am not willing to carry with me, or within me, further.