Life is the summary of small things and your life is summary of those little moments which will create the whole bigger picture. We are the summaries of our beliefs, thoughts and actions.

In middle of the grief of my beloved grandma passing, I found peace in creativity and movement. Safe outlets to let those feelings come and go, like the waves to the shore, while every new sunrise reminds about new beginnings.

I have found the peace from her wise words, knowing that I will be still carrying all those that she shared, within me. Her being now at peace and pain free, has given me the peace of being too. And how strongly the peace did hit, that suprised me.

Peace. In all forms and shapes, that’s the new rich. Going to the bed with peace of mind and waking up with ease. Days fulfilled with what you love, surrounded by your loved ones.  No matter of your status in relationship wise, being In peace with it, enjoying either the solitude or companionship that you are sharing. Whatever feeds your happiness, and keeps your mind in ease and peace, cherish that. 

The older I have grown, the more I have been starting to appreciate solitude but also the ease of life. The more changes there have been, the more I have been longing for steadiness. Too much moving parts at the same time will not benefit you when thinking about long term goals. Life will be handling the changes anyway, so the more steady base you have, the less the boat is rocked. Everything nowadays seems to be all about fastness – we have fast fashion, we have fast food. Fast this and fast that. Short reels to keep our action spam occupied. Relationships are tending to be just a short term solution for escaping from being alone. And this kind of fast forwarded, short term actions are also seen on any kind of relationships, even from friends to family. Dating apps more and more and more being used like Glowo for intimacy, emotional or physical. However, short term solution – again. 

I saw on time a good quote from man those name I don’t remember on this very moment, but when he said ”the problem in todays worlds is that items are being loved, and people are being used – and it should be the opposite” and this couldn’t be more accurate.  Sometimes I’m personally feeling like that in the forever fasting cycle of days turning into weeks and so on, we tend to forget that we as individuals are here to flourish as we are, we are ment to be stand out in our own uniqueness instead of blending in. We don’t need to agree with everything and with everyone, we have the freedom to change the things that are not working in our favors.

The life it self is in the small little things, that light the spark into our eyes. The small little things, that makes our inner child giggle. The small things, that will make us feel seen, understood. Those are the things that we should pay more attention into, and spare more time to.

And the change for the better, towards to the life looking and feeling more like you, with peace of mind? Thats in the small decisions and actions that can change the whole perspective of the road ahead of us.

Life is too damn short for pouring energy onto something, thats doesnt align. Feed the fire in you, follow what feeds your inspiration. Follow the vision, your path of choice