Feeling like your everyone else is on their prime time and entering into new phases in their lives ? While you yourself have been lately feeling stuck and lacking wanted progress?

Maybe its time to take look at on your current situation. Does the wins of others actually align with what you are wanting? I personally think that sometimes its good to visit into your past, but only to take a look back to see how far you have  already come.

That is the productive way to really measure up the progress already made, as that fuels the passion that keeps you going further. If comparing your journey to others, you will most likely just ending up dimming on your own light. 

Regarding to this, I recently saw a reel related tot his on Instagram which pointed out really well the fact that where you are currently at in your life, is actually someones dream: 

That man who is thinking about owning a helicopter, drives a Lamborghini. 

The man who thinks about owning a Lamborghini,  just bought a boat. 

The man who is dreaming about boat, just bought a house. 

The man dreaming about buying a house, just closed a dream deal of his career. 

The man thinking about closing his dream deal of his career, just signed a job contract. 

The man who dreams about signing a new job contract, currently studies. 

The man who dreams about studying may be unemployed, but has a home. 

The man dreaming about a home, is staying at his friends sofa.

The man dreaming about having a warm place to stay, lives on the streets.

We all have our own phase, our own journey. Comparison only shows the lack and thats not the mindset to operate from if aiming for progress. When you do understand that even the smallest win is a win, and you give it also time in form of appreciation, you are also giving yourself more fuel to the flames to keep on thriving towards your next desired outcome instead of just having endless rat wheel  race from task to task.

They don’t say that for nothing, that the time is money. Money is also freedom, freedom brings along better quality of life, which attracts happiness. And when you take the time to appreciate even the small victories of yours, you are instantly giving yourself also the credit that all the hard work and focus did pay off.

Little, yet mindful celebrations also will give you a nice little break to relax, to recharge yourself. Time to refocus and slowly yet steadily starting to focus onto what next. We humans are funny in that way, that as we are never ready and more like work in progress, so does our minds too keeping us up for wanting more. 

Thats why is also really important to be mindful about what you really want into your life. While thriving towards bigger and better, as it is the quality of the life that matters in the end, its also about the amount of happy, meaningful moments you have gained. The more mindful you are, the clearer the vision, the clearer to road and less unnecessary detours taken and rocks turned.

Clear vision of desired outcome also helps you pass on things that ain’t aligning with where you are heading, which means less unnecessary package to bring along.

And thats the way to happy life, starting with happy, grateful mind.