You never know until you go, and you never grow until you are willing to fail.

Without risk taking there is no room for growth, when the option is making the change or stay the same, its time to take a reality check where is your life at on this exact moment. The life changes when thought becomes on act, and with discipline the mountains will move. It is about taking the first step, just starting from the little tasks that you can do now. 

 As there is not certain linear life path that works for everyone, all the ”rules” or advises either will not work for all – not in same way anyway. For example, there is on expectation on how you should be on first dates or how old you should be when getting married/getting a certain possession in work and so on. Yes there is a people who hit all the social marks on the similar age stages but that doesn’t mean that it will be same way for everyone and for that reason, not all the recommendations work for all either. 

As many as there is people in this world there is also the same amount of different kind of life paths and destinies, even the one that is seeming to be similar person has them plot twists that will make to be like-minded, but still notable different. When trying to cope in the waves of life, it is easy to try and seek all the possible advises, but the important fact is to find the ones which wills suit you. Your personality, your stage of life. As our lives tend to change through the time too, so is changing our perspectives and needs. The way you were thinking a year ago, or the advise that you got at the same time, might not serve you anymore. 

Do you make yourself smaller, so others would feel comfortable around you? If saying yes, stop. Be-littleing yourself never takes you to places, being your authentic self in other hand will do that. To get where you see yourself aiming asks for mind liked people and fastest way to really get that kind of people around you is being the authentic you – with all the bubbles and depth that you serve.  And yes, there is a risk that you are starting to notice that people around start to fade, like leaving behind. But if so, they werent your people on the start.

It is not about being aware of yourself or your life only in one point or stage or your life, its is staying discipline during the different stages of life, and being aware of yourself and what you are needing. With every step on the way.