Human mind is  interesting in a way that as well as we are able to tell small little white lies to people around us, we’re even better to tell those to ourself. Some skepticism is healthy to have, but the line on when you start making more obstacles to be on the way than there already is, its drawn on the water. As well as we can cheers ourself to go over the accusing obstacles, we can be tricking our mind think otherwise.  

When aiming for bettering ourself, it is really good to time to time review on where are you now but also taking the time for being grateful on this current time period and what you have for so far. Im also currently reflecting on the where I am with myself, with my needs and wants. Are the building bricks that I currently have, the right ones and if so, are they in a right order. You know, sometimes we already do posses what we need for the next major (or a small, but significant) step, but we just might use it incorrectly or are not aware on this aspect already to be in there, ready for the use. 

”The only thing standing between you and your goal is the bullshit story that you keep telling yourself as to why can’t achieve it.”

– Jordan Belfort

The grass indeed is greener where you water it, so let your effort pour into where you want your focus to be. Easier said done done, but you are learning always more during the actual tasks, and that, that is where the magic lies. We need the a-ha – moments to really understand, why thing have not been working to really to keep going keeping our selfs to evolve as our mind tends always remember better the negative sides, so why not use them to be really good reminders on why you want what you want so you also during that lesson you gain a new perspective.

Negative perspective helps you reminds yourself, why you want the change to happen and it is really good motivator too, if you dontt drown yourself into that feeling so keeping in mind all the positive aspects that the current situation is bringing into alignment. 

I like to keep myself more or less busy allt he time, as I feel in certain way that the wheels keep on spinning, but now-a-days Im wise enough to understand that the ”slower seasons” too are serving their purposes. Downshifting time to time is actually quite good decision to make and act on it too, as we tend to get easily speed blind with our everyday life.

This past week has been for me really good period to sit down, and really just be. A bit by ”accident” too, as the current week has been less hectic than normally my weeks are. But instead of making plenty of new plans, and to really understand to appreciate this kind of moments, well, that has now been clearly making the difference. 

I found myself on this week really stopping and taking the time just for myself, and also staying more in my home environment, which I normally tend to keep quite hectic with my everyday routines. But now, after much more hectic time period, this was actually what I were needing now. Just staying home more, by myself. Also, as my friends have been complimenting my views from my home, I realized that I had been starting to keep this thing as a self-evident.

So, I decided  to start change my perspective from this, and taking the time to appreciate what I have at the moment. As this has been also one of my dream, to have the ocean view.