After so many changes during short time periodt, Im now noticing the urgent need to have more steadiness to my life and I want to have a steadiness to be part of my life in a way that there is a safe, calm place for me to come back from my adventures. And Im aiming to this on all of areas in life.

When I was younger, I took the steadiness as being boring, but the more I have gain age and also been having many  big changes in a short time period, I have started to appreciate really much the steady aspects of my life. 

Life does not has to be boring, but all the uncertainity steals from the joy of the excitement, when there is no safe, steady place to come back to when needing time to rest and recharge before the next battle or adventure appears.

Creative mind needs the feel of boredom to be able to work properly as the boredom is the playground of creativity, because then there is no limits of time or so to holding you back.

Without boredom, the mind is all the time overloaded. Or that is how I feel it, how I have been experiencing the things. While its quite easy to sell your soul for your dreams, its also a big reality check to realize that your  current dreams might not make you happy or adding the fulfillment to your life. You get what you work for, but at the same time you are gaining the knowledge of the price tag that comes with getting what you asked for.  Sometimes its like that, and then its up to you, are you willing to claim it what did you ask for. You might even already knowing what is coming with it, but sometimes, there is much more than what is shown to the surfaces. 

And most of the time, the way you taught you would achieve your goals might not even be the best way on your case as we all have different paths on our life.

The biggest act of change is when you stop looking your dreams through the pink glasses, and really taking a good look what may come with it what you want. The more you prepare yourself, the more you are to prepare yourself to what might come up.

Sometimes when we hold on too tightly onto things that are not serving ourselves anymore, we end up having this kind of cold shower kind of wake up call. But still, even tho things didn’t work out as you were imaging them to go, you did head towards it. So basically, in the end, you did win. You gain more than you lost, and even tho your dreams were not like you thought it/they would be, you did get there and still gain better aknowledge about yourself and that is the best reward to have. The fact is, not all are knowing themself, getting their dreams or not, and just going with the growd. And that sad, so that why I’m so happy, whenever I hear that someone as looked the time to figure themself out, especially when you realized that your dreams were not fullfiling you as you wanted them to.

We are so use to use people the same way that we do use the items, getting carried away with the looks, that we often do forgot that it is the inside that is the thing that matters. and yet, it is the thing, that it is easiest to pass and focus on everything else. With time, you also get to know much better to others, also when talking one to one, but also how other are ”socially”

With all the choices we do make, comes what ifs. And where from, we can think through the next steps. Even if its about the walks on the windy area of the costa del sol. iI mean that the more we twell in the past, the more it steals the joy from the present moment

And the present is the thing that sets the direction for our future to come. 

And when you do good, you also receive good. The manners matter. People act shallow and lack the empathy because we become what we think, and when being respectful, honest and open, in the end, you will be surrounded my like minded people