We all have the same 24hours that Beyonce does, minus the army of assistances she has. Also she has started from nothing, doing as much as she could at the time. In other words, we all have the time we need to take the action but we tend, especially when making the changes or upgrades, to try to do as much as possible at the same time, so basically there is more balls in the air than you eventually are able to handle. I have being witnessing so many time people driving them selfs to the point of burnout, and I have noticed that many do struggle with the same, important thing; time management. 

I have been struggling with it too, and for that reason I relate to it also. But when seeing things from aside, it does hit you differently. You are like watching closely  things to going on, and as it is not directly  about your own life, you are more eager to spot the things that are being as the breaks on the way to success. You can do a lot by yourself, but in the end, how wise it really is to try to keep every task on your own table? Bigger plans may insist to have a bigger team, and when having aroun people who are sharing s same wave length with you, well, then starts the magic happen.

Having too much on your plate not only makes you overly anxious and stressed, but also slows down your own potential capabilities on the tasks you normally are able to handle even your eyes covered and with the left hand. When the balance is off, it is more easy to do also more mistakes. 

Everything is really about a growth game; you learn while you do, and also with the bigger pictures, there comes more responsibility and you really need to know, when to ask more doers to step on the field, to be able to get the next stage to really get started and more steady growth to be happen. It is really important to have the realities on knowing why do you need something, what that really is, how is the process around it and over happening and  the most important, when to get the tasks to be done by someone else.

By doing that you not only gain more time for your own things, but also you are freeing more capacity for your own hard drive on your head which means more creativity to be arise. Be optimistic about your goals, but don’t think on same way what comes to your schedules; You can do many things during 24hours, but lets be realistic – not everything needs to be done in one day. By planning your week or even your month more or less before hand gives you more freedom to the days, as you know exactly what is happening and when, deadlines are easier to spot and you are able to be more on the map what need to be done and when. And you get the feel of freedom by not loading so much for one day. Because the more you have on your plate with lack of time, the more there is unnecessary levels of stress rising.

Stress happens to be the biggest mood killer of the creativity and it shuts down of the engine of your mind while turning your game of thoughts to a survival mode. Your days become more on more like a replicas of themselfs, and  not on a good way. You may be able to keep things running, but when looking on the bigger picture, things over all are staying the same. The step further is still waiting to be happen.

The hoped outcome is not happening by coping the stressing situation, you gain more stress about it and you might feel being even more stuck and then you can say Hi to visious cycle. And where the focus goes, so seems the growth also reflect. When focusing on the bad, the bad gets bigger. And wise versa, when focusing on the good, the good gets better.

When being aware of, not only your potential, but also your strenghts, it is more easy to see where to really put your effort, time and focus. And also, same time being honest on the realities on what are things which are not your strengths, or not even your favorites. When asking yourself, would there be someone else to be able help and to do it for me? Its not about showing weakness, it is showing that you indeed are facing the realities and also making the point that you really are on top of your game knowing exactly how to strenghten up on your game.

The feel of happiness comes from having the feel of freedom, over all and by being yourself, and when you take the the time to plan you schedules so that you have more feeling of freedom, you set yourself in a totally new place mentally wise.

”Productivity is never an accident. It is always the result of a commitment to excellence, intelligent planning and focused effort.”

Paul J. Meyer