Scared, but hopeful? Good. The moment when you just know, that now is the time. Time to take the leap of fate and that trust the process of what ever is going to happen, will be better than the situation you are currently in.

Feeling just fine, having (finally) everything ok. Roof on top of your head, a job, surrounded by friends and so on. But still you have that ache inside of you – ”Just fine” is not anymore doing it favors for you and you may feel like you have been growing out from the current life situation/athmospere. ”Everything ok” seems to be not that great feeling after all. You basically have it all, but at the same time, you feel empty. You have dreams, but they seem to be somewhere in future, for some reason, there seems to be still a gab between you and the adored outcome. And that not where you want them to stay. There is time and need for the change, taking the action.

This is more and less a repeative cycle, that comes and goes. But one thing is sure; when this feeling comes around, you know deep down in yourself, that now its time to stop just thinking and start doing. And you go for it fearlessly – its like you are train without the brakes, taking the action on your own control and just going forward. And while doing so, the confidence towards the outcome is undeniable. Trusting the process fully. Growth game so strong, that you can almost  like feel the evolving happen on everything you do, on yourself but also around you. When things shift interly, the surroundings follow.

Taking the action and even if it just a small thing to start with, will put the wheels on roll. The less of unneseccary things you pull up with, the more space there is for gaining more favorable things. Make list, write things down. What are the things you really want, and what are things that you already posses and the most important thing, what are the things that you can already use as building bricks and solid base for the upcoming change? And what are the things, that you need to get rid off, for good? Those things, that negatively affect on you, even if not directly but you can sense the weight on yourself. Remembering and noticing these, both good and the bad, this all will make it easier to start but also keeping the process going after the first step towards the llife you dream of. This goes from relationships to work and even on your surroundings. And even the smallest act on better can make huge difference, but it all starts from making the effort and really sticking behind your decision.

Because there is nothing wrong to demand better, as long as you are willing to do the effort for it too. You get treated bad or your life seems to be staying the same, it’s because you let it be so. I know, truth hurts, right. As I have been going already lately many changes, I have been also taking notice how really is important to have people around you that are uplifting, supporting and owning the same thriving mindset. You can find many ways to be inspired to make the changes, but if you are not surrounded by supporting energy, taking the actual action may be lacking. Its not having people around you that do the things for you, its more like to have support net that gives you that little, but much needed, push towards taking the action. Especially when you may be doupting and questioning yourself on making the changes for better. In these kind of situations, I have learned that it is better to have the ”ooops” than the ”what if’s”, because in the end, you were already ready for the change before fear of the new stepped in.

The more believe in on yourself, the more likely you are more eager to take the action on things. And it can be anything in between to want to be treated better to take more responsipility at work. Human mind that funny that if you don’t pay attention on how the things flow around you, you just adjust yourself to your surroundings. And to stick with it. But when you do notice the patterns around you, it is easier to spot which things are blocking you from reaching and doing more, keeping yourself from reaching out to the goals of yours.

I have been more or less the one that has been putting way too much on thoughts and time to polishing up even the smallest detail. Even though details do matter, on some point, you need to stop adjusting them untill inifity and let the wholeness of your project doing its thing. More likely not many of people will even be noticing the thing what you have been fixing maybe already hours. I’ve been training on this part thinking that if it doesnt matter in 5minutes, I can let it be. And most likely after taking a break, you are more likely able to notice that btw, that detail you have been working on, is already good as it is. Working as it should.

When speaking on the bigger picture, sometimes its better to have just the picture ready on your mind and letting them details taking their shape on the side while pushing the process forward. The more flexible the plan, the less breaking on your nerves and more suprises on the pleasant side. Also, the thing that I have been learning while evolving my mindset, is that its more important to take the action than making it perfect right away.

Like in work, as you may be lacking the experience, and you may not posses the same amount of knowledge than the person that has had years on working on the same thing, but at the same time, you are having the fresh sight on the on going things as that person may have the experience, but is also in away used to more or less doing things on certain way. Everyone has their ”first times”, and life in general is constant process of learning, so if you did not nail it on the first time, it was a lesson. And the best way to learn more is to make the action. Go and do, because while doing, you learn. And when you learn, you evolve. Old habits won’t open the new doors, so if you want better, you have to do better.

Challenging yourself also opens your mind in many ways. When feeling stuck, your mind is trained to find the solutions. You just need to open your mind, take your head out off your own a**. And the more you but effort on butting your mind on work, the more better solution maker you become. When I personally feel stuck, as well as have the feelings of acheing frustration, I also aknowledge, that this is the time to stop, think through things and after that, go further.

Hitting the gas pedal on putting things to go through the change. Im not settling down for that unpleasant feeling and getting use to it, no. I will work things through and find the solutions to make even the unpleasant moments to work for my favor. Training your mind to see even the tiniest positive aspects on things is not foolish, it is having the courage to not letting the bullsh*t get on your mind and stopping you. Still keeping it going, no matter what.

And when aiming for better, it’s also really important to stop yourself from comparing your life to everyone elses timeline and trust that the things you do are enough on this pesific moment. Even tho you may not be so sure of the outcome of your project, no one else is not seeing that though process that is going on in your own head. The more confident you represent yourself, the more powerful is your representation.

So how about taking to first step, like straight away?