Inner peace is the new success

Waves slowly hitting on the sand, trying to reach on my feet while walking next to the sea on the shore line. Clear night sky with all the stars above me. Even tho there is world wide pandemic still going on among us, I find myself walking with the peace in my heart. Smiling.

Not even the voices of traffic no more reach us. City is starting slowly get quieter, and only the sound of the waves is keeping the company for us.

One of the favorite sounds of mine. Calming my mind and shoothing my soul, living near to the beach has been one of the best life decicions ever. Something on that deep blue ocean just keeps calling me.

I felt the same sensation that fullfilled me while being in Greece. The overwhelming happiness, like hi there, its me again! I smiled even more wider.

Feeling whole in every aspect is for me the new success. It is when you feel complete, you have basically everything that you need, and you are on charge on your own happiness. Its the state of mind when others can only add more to that to what you already have, but they dont have the power to make it being any less.

Everything starts from the mind, but if there is no peace in your heart, there is no freedom in your mind. And when the mind is trapped, you have in away hitted the wall.

But how to find the inner piece? And the most important thing, how to maintain to also keep it.

One of the advices that i would give, is to find the things that already are the ones that bring the joy on your everyday life and focus on them. The effort goes where the intention is planted, and it is a process. The never ending one, but ones you start to go on that road, you most likely wonder why you did not do this earlier. What you plant from the joy, the happiness follows. And happiness gives you freedom.

The main thing is to focus multiplying the happiness, its quite like betting on stock market. If you dont make right decicions, you loose. But when placing the invest wisely, you gain more. And when you invest on yourself, you are also on charge on your own losses or gains.

When being sad, go and do what makes you feel if not happy, better. Better do it also in a way, that its not hitting you back later like rubber pand, so focus on the things that also in long term are the ones that bring more than they take. With those small things you are able to greate a solid base for yourself to stand on.

And when being happy, document that. The things, feelings. Write, take a picture, memorise the smells and atmosphere. It makes it easier to get back on that moment when you have an actual footage on those moments that fullfill you with the joy. Because the fact is, somethimes we all need the reminders, when feeling low in the cross-waves of life.

And with those little reminders, is easier to step the game up after a little melt down.

I also have been noticing that every time im having a sensation of a setback, eventually that is the moment that actually I am on point of growth, gaining the the knowledge that the things that i have receantly done, they arent working on to the adored way. Those moments are also the ones that Im able to redirect my curse, before hitting the total off-spin.

Every dark cloud comes with the silver lining, but it is your job to spot that. ”Never a loss, only a lesson” I would say.

Also, one thing. When focusing on the things that make you happy you should never do it so that its on expence of others. Even though it is about your own life, harming others never favors anyone in the end: You can go after your own happiness, but without taking others down with the process of your own.

While starting to work on yourself, it’s also important to take a look on your surroundings, the place you are living in and the people that you are surrounded yourself with. Are you having the support that you need, or are you finding yourself dimmed by other opinions, instead of getting gouraged or offering new point of views to evolve to reach your dreams or are you only getting belittleted. For example, you dont want to have people telling you how you should be living your life, more like offering the perspectives that help you have more clearer aspect on the things that you are currently working on. When something is not working, does it need to be replaced or can you get it fixed, and it is still adding more than taking?

Asking the right questions to make you have your own A-HA!-moments. And when you have that kind of clearenses, wrote them down, you may need them later.

When you surround yourself with uplifting people, you have your back covered. Maintaining the right mindset is not easy, so it is important to have people around that are on the same wave lenght that you are but also at the same time making you want to grow and evolve, and to not settle for less than you deserve. The ones that ask right, supportive questions and help you to gain more perspectives. Those kind of people are worth of their weight in gold, and you should be pursuing those relationships.

It mind sound harsh, but the more you have toxic people around you, the more harder is it keep the uplifting spirit. And keep the focus while going after your dreams.

And you deserve all the positivity and support on your journey.

Luna wandering around, my little piece of Greek, also enjoying our night walk on the beach, jumping around like a rabbit.

The little things.

Vastaa

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